I don’t like talking on the phone. Even when I was younger and all my friends would talk for hours on the phone with each other, I wanted nothing to do with it. I don’t like making phone calls, and I don’t like receiving phone calls. I think I have a problem.
I don’t know why I dislike the phone so much because I love talking with people. If I would see you in a public place I would love to talk with you. I could sit down and talk with people for hours and have no problem with that. I am a relational guy. But when the phone rings or buzzes I dread picking it up. I dread what I am going to hear on the other line. I dread the problems that may come my way that will possibly ruin my day. I dread the phone.
As I have tried to counsel myself over my dislike of the phone I have come to a couple of conclusions but I am only going to share one with you. I think one of the reasons I dislike the phone is that I can’t see you. I can’t see your non-verbal reactions to things that I say. I don’t know if you are mad, making fun of me, or concerned with the things that I say. I like to see people when I talk with them. I like to see how they react to a statement that I make. I like to be able to see if the person is bored or if they are excited about what I am saying. I like to see the person or the people that I am talking to. When it comes to prayer, this is one of my struggles as well.
We are starting a sermon series on Sunday, June 12 called 4G. This is just a creative way to say we are doing a sermon series on prayer. One of the barriers that I have with prayer is that God is not visually in front of me. I know He is there. I know He is listening. I know he talks back. It is just hard for me to listen, because I don’t see Him. Then, when I think I hear Him, I don’t always want to do what He is asking me to do.
God says in Jeremiah 33:3, “Call to me and I will answer you…” Do you believe this? Do you believe God will answer when you pray? Are you willing to take the risk to call out to God? Are you willing to be patient and listen? Are you willing to obey when we He talks to us?
We have access to the One who has the power to do all we ask or imagine. We can talk to the One who has the authority to do all that He wants us to do. Will we?
I would love to hear from you and your struggles with prayer. Here are a couple of questions to get you started:
What are some barriers that people have when it comes to prayer?
How often and when do you pray?
Do you enjoy talking on the phone? (I know this last one has nothing to do with prayer, but I was just curious.)
Leave me a comment and let me know what you think. I’ll be looking forward to hearing from you (and I admit I’ll be a little relieved that we’re NOT talking on the phone).